After I published 14 Ways to Connect With Your Child, a reader asked me to share my favourite parenting books. Coincidentally, this exact post was already in the works from a recent brainstorming session. Great minds think alike, I guess!
I don’t actually read a whole ton of parenting books. I have good intentions. Sometimes I even order them only to sit for an embarrassingly long time untouched. I wish I read (a real book made out of paper) more often, but I think the internet may be a giant conspiracy to turn all of our brains to mush, which has turned my main leisure into screen-time instead.
Me and the internet. It’s a love-hate relationship. It’s also a total rabbit trail, so I’ll try to focus here (thanks a lot, internet, for wrecking my attention span. I’m like a puppy. Or a goldfish.)
So anyway… I have a few book recommendations to share, as well as my favourite websites.
A Few Books:
Raising Your Spirited Child by Mary Sheedy Kurcinka (I wrote a post on my own spirited child after reading this book.)
Loving Our Kids on Purpose by Danny Silk (I just absolutely love this book. The first half especially was just revolutionary for me in developing my parenting philosophy in relation to my theology.)
Ames & Ilg’s Your 4-Year-Old, etc. (A fantastic series – each book is one year of life, ie 3-year-old, 4-year-old, etc – on child development from a psychological perspective. This stuff is amazingly accurate and helpful in understanding the normal stages and characteristics of each age group. Slightly dated language because it was written several decades ago, but immensely helpful nonetheless)
Websites:
(FYI: many of these sites are excellent to follow on facebook as well – lots of great articles, links, and discussions!)
Aha Parenting (This is my absolute favourite – the articles are brilliant)
Dulce de Leche (A great blog written by a mama with so much wisdom)
Peaceful Parent Institute (Called the Way of the Peaceful Parent on Facebook)
Gentle Christian Mothers (A message board with a great diversity of theological backgrounds, all with the common goal of parenting gently)
Peaceful Parenting (A more outspoken site with tons of controversial views. I happen to agree with most things on there, so I reference it here for your perusal as well. Tons of fantastic research on the tougher subjects like sleep training, spanking, circumcision, etc)
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So I think that about covers it for today… a little light reading for your Friday evening, right? (OK, confession, I honestly love spending hours reading up on this stuff… I may be weird, but I am 100% ok with that!)
What are your favourite parenting resources?
(Linked up with The Parent ‘Hood)
tanya @ truthinweakness
i could spend hours reading up on this stuff, too, so thx for the great resources — many of which i’ve never heard of.
blessings to you & yours,
tanya (a neighbor at the parent ‘hood) 🙂
AllisonO of O My Family
I loved Love and Logic in the Early Years. I checked it out from the library a while back and am feeling like it might be worth the purchase – I’ve wanted to reference it so many times lately. And I feel like I need to mention the Dr. Sears parenting library, too. I am constantly pulling those off the shelf to skim and gather info.
Thanks so much for linking this up to The Parent ‘Hood!
Crystal
Loving our kids on purpose is also a favourite for us! We have actually purchased the DVD teaching series and manual, and are leading an 8-week home group at our church for parenting.
Handsfull
I’ve just done that course over here in New Zealand! To be honest, I’m still trying to get my head around it. I love the concept, but it’s such a long, long way from how I was parented and quite a long way from how I’ve parented, and it’s taking a while for it to sink in. My heart loves it, but my head is still not entirely convinced that I can change my ways!
Beth Ricci
I hear you… it’s totally different, isn’t it? But somehow, it really just makes complete sense.
Beth Ricci
Oh how cool! I wish I could do that DVD series… hmmm… maybe I actually could… but first I’ll need to find a church and some friends in my (new) area! Hope you love it!
Keesha
i cant get your links to work on this page… i dont know if something is wrong w/ my computer or if the links really dont work… just fyi… the only links i got to work were:
14 Ways to Connect With Your Child
a post on my own spirited child
Gentle Christian Mothers
Peaceful Parenting
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Beth Ricci
Ahh! Thanks, I will fix those ASAP!!
Beth Ricci
alright, they should all be working now. thanks for the heads up!